The Queer Family Podcast

Ali and Megan open up to Jaimie about giving the gift of family to another queer couple through surrogacy. Ali was a recently divorced mother of two when she swiped right for Megan on Tinder. Their connection was instant, and soon, they found themselves blending their lives, navigating co-parenting with Ali's ex, and talking about carrying a baby for another family. Join us as we explore the intricate dynamics of their relationship, the co-parenting experience, the emotional and logistical aspects of surrogacy, and their hopes for the future. This episode offers a heartfelt look into the beauty and challenges of building a family within the LGBTQ+ community.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to NewGen Families, and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Surrogacy Journey: Ali and Megan share their experience of becoming surrogate parents for another lesbian couple, navigating the emotional highs and logistical challenges with grace and mutual support.Agency Selection: The importance of choosing a surrogacy agency that aligns with one's values comes to light, as Ali and Megan discuss their positive experience with NewGen Families.Family Dynamic: Insight into the co-parenting dynamics between Ali and Megan, and how they navigated the complexities of integrating their lives.Personal Growth: The journey has been transformative not just for the intended parents but for Ali and Megan as well, leading them to deeper personal growth and a stronger family bond.Community and Connection: Emphasizing the power of chosen family and community, they discuss their lasting relationship with the intended parents and how the surrogacy experience created extended familial ties.🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Ali and Megan are a a blended family based in Wichita, Kansas. Ali came out after a prior marriage, co-parenting her kids amicably with her ex. Megan never envisioned herself as a parent until meeting Ali. Together, they have not only built a loving home with their children but also made the incredible journey of becoming a surrogacy team. Recently, Ali carried a baby for a lesbian couple in California, supported every step of the way by Megan.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: New Gen Families - The surrogacy agency Ali and Megan worked with, which strives to ensure supportive, ethical, and empathetic experiences for surrogates and intended parents. Mention the Queer Family Podcast for a $1,000 discount on the surrogacy agency fee!🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jaimie sits down with Kelly Vincent, author of the YA series "Ugly, Uglier, and Ugliest," to discuss gender identity, representation, and the challenges faced by LGBTQIA individuals. Kelly shares personal experiences of growing up in Oklahoma, the impact of societal gender norms, and the journey to embracing an agender identity. The episode explores the importance of diverse stories in fostering understanding and normalization, with a focus on the current political climate and its effects on the queer community. Also, hear about the remarkable reception Kelly's books have received."I felt like I was failing at being a human because it seemed so easy for other people to be comfortable in who they were." Kelly🏳️‍🌈Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com, and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Kelly Vincent's Journey: Kelly shares their personal experiences with gender confusion and societal pressures in Oklahoma, leading to their self-identification as agender.Books on Gender Identity: Kelly's series "Ugly," "Uglier," and "Ugliest" provide a narrative on gender identity through the eyes of a high school teenager, offering both representation and insights.Impact of Fiction: Kelly discusses how fiction can be a powerful tool for understanding complex issues like gender identity and fostering empathy.Current Political Climate: The conversation touches on the escalating political challenges facing the LGBTQIA community and the need for activism and representation.Educational Resource: The novels serve as valuable resources for both🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Kelly Vincent is an acclaimed author specializing in young adult (YA) fiction. Growing up in Oklahoma, Kelly experienced a lot of gender confusion, which became a central theme in their writing. Their series, centered around the protagonist Nick, includes titles like "Ugly," "Uglier," and the upcoming "Ugliest." Kelly uses their platform to shed light on important social issues, gender identity, and the complexities surrounding them. Their work has gained critical praise, including a starred review from Kirkus Reviews and runner-up placement in SCBWI's Spark Award.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: The Art of Being Ugly Series Kirkus Reviews:SCBWI: Society for Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators 🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jaimie chats with Damien Chambers, a gay dad through surrogacy, a known sperm and embryo donor, and founder of Surrogacy Agency, NewGen Families. They discuss the emotional and legal intricacies of surrogacy, sperm and embryo donation, and the creation of ethical surrogacy journeys. Get insights into Damien's experiences and learn about the importance of trust and support in the surrogacy process. For those on the queer family-building journey, this episode offers valuable perspectives and information.Tune into the full episode to hear more about Damien Chamber's journey, the intricacies of surrogacy, and tips for navigating the legal and emotional aspects of queer parenthood. Don't forget to stay tuned for more enlightening episodes celebrating and normalizing LGBTQIA families🏳️‍🌈Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com, and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Trust and Connection: Establishing a deep trust and connection with your surrogacy agency is crucial for a successful journey. Damien emphasizes the importance of feeling a genuine vibe with the agency representatives.Legal and Psychological Preparation: Proper legal and psychological screenings are essential to ensure a smooth surrogacy or sperm donation process, protecting all parties involved, especially the child.Ethical Surrogacy: Damien's agency, NewGen Families, is committed to ethical and supportive surrogacy practices, ensuring all legal obligations are clear and adhered to.Personal Experience: Drawing from his personal experiences, Damien highlights the emotional nuances and unexpected turns in the journey of becoming a parent through surrogacy and sperm donation.Surrogate and Egg Donor Relations: Keeping an open and respectful relationship with surrogates and egg donors can provide a supportive environment and cherished connections for the future child.🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Damien Chambers is a gay father via surrogacy, entrepreneur, sperm donor, and embryo donor. He is the founder of NewGen Families, a surrogacy agency dedicated to creating supportive, safe, and ethical surrogacy journeys for future parents irrespective of their race, gender, or sexual orientation. Damien has a profound commitment to helping others achieve their dream of starting a family.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: NewGenFamilies.com – Damian Chambers' surrogacy agency offering supportive, safe, and ethical surrogacy journeys.Society for Ethics in Egg Donation and Surrogacy (SEEDS): Professional standards organization ensuring ethical practices in surrogacy and egg donation.🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tyler, a gay dad of three, shares his transformative journey from a strict Christian upbringing to living his truth as an "ex-hetero." Highlighting his struggle with faith, family, and coming out later in life, Tyler talks about the importance of self-love, parenting shifts, and building a resilient, chosen family. Jaimie and Tyler also delve into combating toxic masculinity and the ongoing political and social challenges facing LGBTQIA+ families. This episode offers an inspiring look at embracing differences, resilience, and authenticity amidst adversity.Embark on Tyler's journey of self-discovery and transformation, and gain invaluable insights into the power of living authentically. Tune in to this compelling episode and stay connected for more inspiring stories from the Queer Family Podcast.🏳️‍🌈Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com, and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Personal Transformation: Tyler shares his journey from a conservative, religious upbringing to embracing his identity as a gay man.Parenting Evolution: Insights into how Tyler's parenting style changed dramatically after leaving the church and coming out.Cultural and Societal Challenges: The impact of George Floyd’s death and societal stereotyping on Tyler’s decision to leave conservative ideologies behind.Importance of Chosen Family: Highlighting the significance of supportive friends and allies in the LGBTQIA community.Navigating Social Pressures: Strategies for dealing with family and community resistance while raising children with open-minded values.🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Tyler: Tyler, a gay dad of three from rural North Carolina, navigated a life deeply entrenched in conservative Christian values. After years of internal struggle and external conformity, Tyler left his heterosexual marriage, came out as gay, renounced religious affiliations, and transformed his parenting style. Now, he embraces a life filled with authenticity, therapy, and a supportive chosen family.Jaimie: Jamie is the vibrant host of The Queer Family Podcast. Passionate about highlighting, celebrating, uplifting, and normalizing LGBTQIA families, Jamie's engaging style and personal insights make her a relatable and effective advocate for the community.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Podcasts mentioned:"Extremely American" (Podcast about Christ Church in Idaho)"Slow Burn" (Season covering the civil rights movement and Harvey Milk)🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jaimie concludes the second annual Pride Extravaganza with Sarah Kate Ellis, CEO of GLAAD, discussing the organization’s efforts to combat misinformation and advocate for the LGBTQIA community. Together, they delve into current challenges, such as anti-trans sentiments infiltrating local school districts, and strategies for fostering understanding and inclusivity. Sarah highlights the importance of ongoing activism, voter engagement, and resilience in the quest for equality. Jaimie also details her personal experience with rising anti-trans sentiments in New York City's School District 2, highlighting the infiltration by groups like Moms for Liberty. Sarah Kate provides pragmatic advice on how to tackle such localized bigotry, emphasizing education, strategic questioning, and the importance of a unified front in the fight for equality. Stay informed and inspired by this empowering conversation, and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from The Queer Family Podcast.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 GLAAD's Mission: GLAAD works to ensure a safe, equal world for LGBTQ individuals by leveraging large platforms and moments to shape narratives about the community.Trans Community Advocacy: The episode delves deep into the political and social narratives affecting the trans community, stressing the importance of addressing misinformation.Local Activism: Jamie shares her personal struggle with rising anti-trans sentiments in her children’s school district, underscoring the need for on-the-ground activism.Educational Gaps: Sarah Kate highlights the significant lack of knowledge about the trans community, noting that more Americans claim to have seen a ghost than know a trans person.Empowering Allies: Practical advice is given on how to engage allies and counter misinformation through inquisitive conversation rather than confrontational debate.🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Sarah Kate Ellis is the President and CEO of GLAAD, a leading LGBTQ advocacy organization. Under her leadership, GLAAD has leveraged major platforms and cultural moments to ensure fair and accurate representation of the LGBTQ community. She actively combats misinformation and works towards a safer, more equal world for LGBTQ individuals. Sarah Kate and her wife Kristen are also proud parents of twins, and their journey includes the unique experience of being pregnant at the same time.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.GLAAD Website: GLAAD.orgGLAAD Vote Resources: GLAAD.org/vote - Ensure you're registered, register others, and get involved in pro-equality initiatives.GenderCool Project: youth-led movement helping to replace misinformed opinions with positive experiences meeting transgender and non-binary youth who are thriving.Athlete Ally: Aims to end homophobia and transphobia in sport and to activate the athletic community to exercise their leadership to champion LGBTQI+ equality.🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

 Jaimie welcomes the “gay grandmas” of “Canada’s Gayest Family,” Jan and Linda, to the show. They share their compelling journeys through decades of LGBTQ+ history, from living in secrecy to becoming advocates and icons within their community. Joined briefly by Linda's daughter, Karen, they discuss the significance of pride, evolving family dynamics, and the strides made for LGBTQ+ inclusion. Their conversation blends poignant memories with hopeful perspectives, highlighting resilience, activism, and family love.Listen to the full episode and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from "The Queer Family Podcast.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Generational Perspectives on LGBTQ+ Life: Insight into how LGBTQ+ experiences and societal acceptance have evolved from the 1970s to today.Coming Out Stories: The challenges and triumphs experienced by Jan and Linda as they navigated life in the closet for many years.Family Dynamics in LGBTQ+ Contexts: Emphasis on the complexities and emotional resonance of coming out within one's family.Historical Context: Reflecting on significant LGBT milestones such as the AIDS epidemic and the fight for marriage equality.Pride and Identity: Exploration of what pride means to multiple generations within the same family.🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Jan and Linda are affectionately known as the "gay grandmas" and are integral parts of what they call Canada's Gayest Family on TikTok. Together for over 30 years, Jan and Linda have been pivotal in shaping their LGBT community through their advocacy and personal stories. They have lived through significant times in the LGBTQ+ movement, including the secretive days of the 70s, the AIDS epidemic, and the vibrant progressiveness of modern times. Jan hails from Australia and has been part of activist movements, while Linda, originally from Canada, navigated a closeted life until the societal tides began to turn. Their daughter Karen, who also identifies as a lesbian, has carried forward their legacy and documented their remarkable journey through social media and film.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.Canada’s Gayest Family on TikTok Documentary Details: “Unusually Normal” and “Our Gay Family" (Pending release details on HBO/Netflix and OutTV)🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Lauren and Amanda Brown are back! The interracial lesbian moms share updates on their family-building journey, including Lauren's recent decision to become a gestational surrogate for a two-dad family. They discuss their motivations for choosing surrogacy, the emotional highs and lows, and the intricacies of the process, including a detailed narrative of the screening process, embryo transfer, and matching with the intended parents, offering valuable insights for anyone considering or curious about surrogacy. They also explore broader themes like LGBTQIA advocacy and the true meaning of Pride, highlighting the power of chosen family and the unique bonds within the queer community.Listen to the full episode and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from "The Queer Family Podcast.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Surrogacy Journey: Lauren shares the detailed process of becoming a gestational surrogate, from initial contact with an agency to the present 14 weeks of pregnancy.Matching with Intended Parents: The importance of finding a perfect match with the intended parents, which includes aligning values and family visions.Advocacy and Representation: The need for more visibility and support for LGBTQIA families in the fertility and surrogacy industry.Queer Community and Chosen Family: The unique and supportive nature of chosen family within the queer community.Understanding Pride: A reflection on the historical significance of Pride and the contemporary struggles for LGBTQIA rights.🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Lauren and Amanda Brown are known as the Two Mom Browns on social media. The couple uses their platform to share their family-building journey, celebrate their identities, and advocate for LGBTQIA rights and visibility.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.@thetwomom_browns on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thetwomom_browns?igsh=MXJmb2t0bnV5N3UzeQ==🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jaimie gives a warm welcome to Caitlyn and “Wanda”, the brains behind the hilarious TikTok account "2.ladies.and.2.babies." They chat about how they met, their coming out stories, picking a donor, and what it’s like for each of them to be both bio and non-bio moms to their kids. They also highlight the playful dynamic in their family, sharing their funny take on parenting and the joy of watching their kids embrace their beautiful family identity. The episode mixes in lots of laughs and real talk about the ups and downs of parenting as a modern LGBTQIA+ family.Listen to the full episode and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from "The Queer Family Podcast.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Choosing a Sperm Donor: Caitlin and Wanda detail their meticulous process of selecting a donor through a fertility clinic, comparing the experience to online dating.Non-Bio Parent Experiences: They discuss the emotional journey of attachment and bonding with their children, emphasizing that love and connection don't always follow predictable paths.Visibility and Normalization: Their social media presence aims to show that queer families are just as normal and full of love as any other, helping to break down barriers and misconceptions.Engagement with Community: They share how their community's acceptance has been overwhelmingly positive and the important🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈"We wanted to create an account that showed queer families and how normal and silly and goofy and loving and fun they can be." - Caitlyn"Looking through the Cryobank website, it’s literally like plentyofsperm.com is what it feels like.” Caitlyn“We literally refinanced our house to be able to do have our second kid.” “Wanda”🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Caitlin and “Wanda” are the dynamic duo behind the popular social media handle "2.ladies.and.2.babies." Together, they bring humor and authenticity to their Social Media Channels, where they share their experiences as a queer family raising two young sons.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.2.ladies.and.2.babies: TikTok InstagramMerch: PEP!: Jaimie’s daughter’s Pride Merchandise shop. All proceeds will go to The Trevor Project.🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jaimie sits down with Vicky and Charisse Pasche, the founders of the Dapper Boi clothing brand. They share their queer family journey, including the challenges of coming out, their unique fertility experiences leading to the birth of their twins, and the inspiration behind creating an inclusive clothing line. They delve into the importance of visibility, representation, and the power of authentic self-expression through fashion. Their heartfelt stories underscore the significance of community and advocacy within the LGBTQIA+ landscape.Listen to the full episode for an enriching experience and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from "The Queer Family Podcast.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 The Journey to Authenticity: Vicky and Charisse’s coming-out stories exemplify the liberating yet challenging path to self-discovery and acceptance.Birth of Dapper Boi: Inspired by personal struggle with traditional gendered clothing, Dapper Boy aims to make everyone feel comfortable and confident.Parenthood Challenges: The couple shares their IVF journey, including PCOS complications, multiple IUIs, and the eventual birth of their twins.Importance of Representation: Their story underscores the significance of visibility for the LGBTQIA community, providing hope and a sense of belonging.Community and Support: The role of community support in navigating and celebrating queer family life is highlighted as a cornerstone of their experience.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈"Shopping in the men's department for the first time, for me, it was like a complete shift, and I was so excited, and I started caring about how I looked, and I had this newfound confidence." - Vicky"We created this brand so a plus-size person, like my wife, could feel confident walking into a room, and they didn't have to compromise fit for fashion." - Charisse🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Vicky and Charisse: Vicky and Charisse are the dynamic duo behind Dapper Boi, an inclusive clothing line aimed at providing comfortable, stylish clothing for people of all sizes and gender identities.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.Dapper Boi Website, InstagramMeet The PaschesMerch: PEP!: Jaimie’s daughter’s Pride Merchandise shop. All proceeds will go to The Trevor Project.🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jaimie welcomes Kelsey and Kymaria, the dynamic influencer duo behind @houseofk.love. They delve into their unique coming-out stories, dealing with religion, and forming a blended family. The couple shares insights into their experiences raising their daughter within a loving, queer household and Kelsey’s transition into instant parenthood. Touching on the challenges and joys of their relationship, they reveal their thoughts on having more children and what pride means to them. This episode is a heartfelt conversation on love, family, and identity.Listen to the full episode for an enriching experience and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from "The Queer Family Podcast.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Navigating Love and Religion: Insights into how Kymaria and Kelsey balanced their religious backgrounds with their coming out journeys.Blended Family Dynamics: Understanding the dynamics of merging families, especially with children involved, and maintaining harmony.Acceptance and Growth: The significance of self-acceptance and the evolving relationships with their families towards acceptance of their identities.Queer Parenting: The approach and philosophies of raising a child in a queer household, focusing on love, freedom, and spirituality.Future Family Plans: Delving into their thoughts on expanding their family, considering avenues like known donors and fertility treatments.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈Kymaria: "I wasn't willing to sacrifice my happiness on account of anyone else's feelings because I felt like I had did it for so long."Kelsey: "The basis of my belief is love. I believe in moving from a place of love and not fear."Kymaria: "Pride just means love overall, in my opinion."Kelsey: "When I think of pride, I think of love, joy, and peace."🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Kymaria and Kelsey, known as houseofk.love, are the charming and dynamic duo behind the vibrant social media platform, House of K. The couple has been sharing their journey of love, family, and life as an LGBTQIA+ family, captivating audiences with their authentic and inspiring stories. By sharing their lifestyle the aim to inspire creativity through their engaging and loving content.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.House of K on Instagram and TikTok and YouTube: @HouseofK houseofk.loveBook Mention: Conversations with God by Neale Donald WalschMerch: PEP!: Jaimie’s daughter’s Pride Merchandise shop. All proceeds will go to The Trevor Project.🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jaimie welcomes Colton Underwood, former NFL player and Bachelor star, to discuss his journey from playing football to embracing his identity as a gay man. Colton shares his struggles with internalized shame, his unique coming out process, and how the COVID-19 pandemic changed his life. He opens up about his ongoing surrogacy journey with his husband, the importance of being intentional in building a family, and the steps they are taking to ensure their future children know they were made with love. Discover Colton's plans, aspirations, and advocacy for LGBTQIA family building.To get a deeper understanding of Colton's inspiring journey and insights into queer family planning, listen to the full episode. Stay tuned for more incredible stories and discussions from The Queer Family Podcast.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Journey to Authenticity: Colton shares how growing up in a conservative, religious background and being an athlete complicated his understanding and acceptance of his identity.Life on The Bachelor: Colton discusses how participating in The Bachelor was a form of conversion therapy for him, aimed at solidifying a straight identity.Mental Health Struggles: Colton talks about his battles with anxiety and depression, leading to a period of substance abuse before he was able to come out and seek help.Queer Family Planning: Colton takes us through the detailed steps he and his husband are taking to build their family via surrogacy, including the search for an egg donor and a surrogate.Advocacy and Awareness: Colton emphasizes the importance of visibility and education around queer family building, aiming to break down misconceptions and foster broader acceptance.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈“By the time I figured out that I was attracted to men and I was gay, it was too late. It was already ingrained in me that was a sin, it was not okay for a football player and an athlete to be gay.” Colton Underwood"Growing up, I just didn't see representation for myself." Colton Underwood"The Bachelor for me was a way to try to really change me. It was my version of conversion therapy." Colton Underwood"My journey will help people... I had physical connections with men in a very shameful way." Colton Underwood🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈Colton Underwood is a former NFL player, reality television star, and mental health advocate. He gained fame through his participation in three seasons of the reality show The Bachelor. Colton made headlines when he came out as gay after struggling with his identity for many years. Since then, he has been an active voice in the LGBTQIA+ community, particularly focusing on mental health and queer family building. Colton is married and is in the process of building a family through surrogacy. He also hosts a podcast focused on fertility and family planning.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Visit cryobank.com and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.Daddyhood Podcast: Colton's podcast focused on fertility and family planning.PEP!: Jaimie’s daughter’s Pride Merchandise shop. All proceeds will go to The Trevor Project.🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Rosie O'Donnell opens up about her experiences as a parent, discussing her journey with raising a child on the autism spectrum and the challenges and joys that come with it. She shares her insights on gender identity and the importance of unconditional love and acceptance. Jaimie also reflects on her own fears and struggles as a parent, including her initial reservations about having a son and the non-biological connection she has with her daughter, and Rosie lovingly tells Jaimie that she needs therapy🤪. This heartfelt conversation explores the complexities of parenting and the power of embracing and supporting our children for who they are.Listen to the full episode to join Jaimie and Rosie O'Donnell on this heartfelt and illuminating journey. Stay tuned for more captivating discussions that shed light on the realities of queer parenting, identity, and overcoming personal battles with the guidance of those who've walked the path before us.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Unconditional love and acceptance are central to parenting, particularly in non-typical households.Personal fears can significantly impact our perceptions and relationships, highlighting the importance of addressing them through therapy or introspection.Gender identity and expressions, especially in children, require sensitive and open-minded discussions and support.Rosie reflects on the beauty and challenges in the relationships between mothers and sons, as well as managing the dynamics of non-bio connections in parenting.The conversation reiterates the importance of embracing each individual's unique journey, whether it relates to autism, gender identity, or personal growth.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈"You have to realize that they're separate individuals from you, and they're not ours. They're the world's children." - Rosie O'Donnell"Every moment, you have a choice: faith or fear." - Rosie O'Donnell"The job of parenting is unconditional love and universal acceptance." - Rosie O'Donnell🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈Rosie O'Donnell is an acclaimed American comedian, actress, and television personality known for her engaging and heartwarming presence both on and off-screen. She has graced Broadway, starred in hit films, and hosted her own influential talk show, "The Rosie O'Donnell Show." Over the years, Rosie has become a beloved icon in the entertainment industry and an outspoken advocate for various causes, including LGBTQ+ rights and children's adoption services. Alongside her impressive career in the limelight, Rosie is also a devoted parent to five children, each with their own unique stories and journeys.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Visit cryobank.com and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What does Pride mean to you? As we get ready for Pride and our upcoming PRIDE EXTRAVAGANZA, Jaimie closes out this season with a little medley of responses to this question from all of last year’s Extravaganza guests. These answers will give you all the feels, y'all. Let them serve as a reminder that LOVE is LOVE, YOU are loved, and PRIDE is EVERY DAY. Happy Pride to all.AND stay tuned next season for episodes with cultural icons and individuals making impactful strides for queer visibility and rights, like Rosie O’Donnell, Colton Underwood, Jaymes Black, and more. This Pride is about to be double the fun, double the visibility, and double the gay!🏳️‍🌈Thanks to ⁠Pregnant Together⁠ (code QUEERFAM), ⁠⁠⁠Our Shelves⁠⁠⁠ and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Pride is understood as a multifaceted celebration of one's authentic self, love, and community, evolving in meaning with life experiences.The anticipation for Pride month injects the episode with hope, reflecting a time for increased visibility and celebration of LGBTQIA diversity.The episode promises compelling content for the upcoming season, beginning with the Pride extravaganza featuring prominent voices such as Rosie O'Donnell.Guests articulate the importance of advocating for rights, embracing individual truth, and fostering environments where families of all configurations thrive.There is an emphasis on building a future where the next generation of LGBTQIA individuals feel proud and supported in their identities.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈"Pride, to me is knowing my truth. Knowing it and believing in it and not backing down, no matter what." Jaimie🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant Together🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jaimie sits down with Shawndeez, a non-binary trans dad who shares their journey towards self-discovery and parenthood. Seandeez discusses the challenges they faced as a queer and trans individual, their decision to pursue IVF and egg retrieval, and the importance of unconditional love in the parent-child relationship. Seandeez also talks about their work supporting parents of trans children and the need for compassionate guidance in navigating the complexities of gender identity. Tune in for an inspiring and heartfelt conversation.Stay tuned for more enlightening discussions that challenge conventional narratives and celebrate the beautiful diversity of queer families.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to ⁠Pregnant Together⁠ (code QUEERFAM), ⁠⁠⁠Our Shelves⁠⁠⁠ and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Shawndeez's journey of self-discovery highlights the complexities of growing up queer and trans in a conservative environment and the subsequent path to embracing their true identity.The decision to pursue reciprocal IVF, where Shawndeez provided the egg and their partner carried the pregnancy, underlines the diverse ways queer families can come about.Shawndeez emphasizes the importance of having supportive medical professionals and a spiritually-driven mindset during their transition and fertility process.Discussions about the emotional work that comes with navigating a trans child's experience, particularly for cisgender and heterosexual parents, underscore the need for understanding and open communication within families.Shawndeez's current work focuses on helping parents of trans children embrace and understand their child's identity, advocating for compassion and unconditional love.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈"The beauty of being queer and the beauty of having the queer and trans consciousness is we have this literacy, we have this emotional capacity. We have the space to have these types of conversations.” Shawndeez"I watched my mother...watched her learn and choose love. That was absolutely massive for me in my own queer consciousness." Shawndeez"It's a beautiful thing...life is really wildly beautiful on the other side." Shawndeez🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈Shawndeez is a non-binary trans person with an impressive academic background and a passionate commitment to the LGBTQIA+ community. With a PhD in Gender Studies from UCLA, Shawndeez is not only thoroughly literate in topics surrounding gender and sexuality but also applies this knowledge to real-world contexts. As a transparent who has navigated personal and social transformations, Shawndeez now dedicates a significant portion of their work to supporting parents of trans children, helping to bridge gaps in understanding and fostering love and acceptance within families.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant TogetherShawndeez on Instagram- @drshawndeezShawndeez’s website: https://www.shawndeez.com/🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Tish's and Arlesia's accidental journey to parenthood brings uncharted waters into the traditional queer family narrative. After a rocky period in their relationship, Tish became pregnant with their son, Ethan, after a one-night stand. Despite the challenges, they decided to stay together and focus on raising their child. Now, as Ethan grows older, they are facing new transitions and learning to prioritize their own growth as individuals and as a couple. This episode highlights the importance of communication, honesty, and resilience in queer family building. It also emphasizes the need for appreciation, constant connection, and showing up for each other in a relationship.Stay tuned for more enlightening discussions that challenge conventional narratives and celebrate the beautiful diversity of queer families.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to ⁠Pregnant Together⁠ (code QUEERFAM), ⁠⁠⁠Our Shelves⁠⁠⁠ and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Tish and Arlesia's relationship began in college and has endured many trials, emphasizing the strength and resilience of queer relationships.The couple had a serendipitous journey to parenthood, which included unexpected turns but led to their son Ethan, who they both cherish deeply.Transparency and growth have been central themes in their relationship, showcasing the importance of honesty and appreciation in a partnership.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈"This is all that matters. Nothing else matters. He is the most important thing.”"If you love that person enough, you have to show up as your true self every single day.""Grab the tea, girl. We're going on a journey."🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant TogetherTish and Arlesia on Instagram @meetthewhitakers🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Victoria Vega, a yoga instructor and doula, shares her journey into birth work and the importance of addressing generational trauma. As a lesbian, Victoria discusses her decision not to have children but expresses a desire to experience childbirth as a surrogate, highlighting that the desire to carry and the desire to parent can exist independently. This perspective adds a refreshing dimension to the broader narrative about what constitutes a queer family. She emphasizes the significance of chosen family and the support she provides to BIPOC and queer communities. Victoria's work focuses on helping individuals navigate their fears and traumas surrounding pregnancy and birth.Stay tuned for more enlightening discussions that challenge conventional narratives and celebrate the beautiful diversity of queer families.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to ⁠Pregnant Together⁠ (code QUEERFAM), ⁠⁠⁠Our Shelves⁠⁠⁠ and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Victoria Vega's journey into birth work was heavily influenced by family history and an understanding of how trauma is inherited and manifested across generations.Epigenetics plays a significant role in birth work, as Victoria discusses the impact of generational trauma on her approach to doula services.The desire to experience childbirth and the desire to become a parent can be separate and independent, which Victoria embodies through her decision not to parent but to potentially become a surrogate.Surrogacy is presented as a valid and honored choice in the LGBTQIA community, with Victoria advocating for an inclusive and diverse representation of family structures.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈“I would actually love to be a surrogate... I would love to experience the miracle of birth and just going through, like, the way our bodies are just magic." Victoria"It takes a village to create our families." Victoria"We make our own families." Victoria🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Victoria Vega is a yoga teacher, meditation facilitator, and full-spectrum doula with a deep commitment to the BIPOC and queer communities.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant TogetherVictoria Vega's Instagram: @vgv.doula_do_yogaSt. Mark's Yoga Classes: https://www.stmarksyoga.com/Bridge Directory for Wellness Support: https://thebridgedirectory.com/Victoria's Website: vgvdoulayoga.com🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Grier and her wife Alana created their family through surrogacy after fertility treatments wreaked havoc on Grier’s mental health and it became clear that carrying a child in either one of their wombs was not an option. She discusses the challenges and shame that can come with not being able to conceive and the importance of breaking down taboos surrounding different ways of creating a family. The conversation also touches on the non-biological connection in queer families, the decision to use an anonymous sperm donor, and the complexities of navigating societal expectations and assumptions. This conversation emphasizes the importance of normalizing different paths to parenthood and supporting individuals in making the best choices for their own well-being. 🏳️‍🌈Thanks to ⁠Pregnant Together⁠, My Donor Story, ⁠⁠⁠Our Shelves⁠⁠⁠ (code QUEERFAM) and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Breaking down taboos surrounding different ways of creating a family is importantThe non-biological connection in queer families can be a complex and nuanced topicChoosing an anonymous sperm donor can alleviate concerns about emotional attachmentNavigating societal expectations and assumptions can be challenging for queer parents Surrogacy can be a valid and empowering choice for individuals who do not want to carry their own child.Mental health should be prioritized when making decisions about family planning.It is important to normalize and support different paths to parenthood.Open and honest conversations about difficult topics can provide support and validation for others going through similar experiences.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈“She didn't want to carry. It was as simple as that.” Grier"I wanted to be the best mother possible. And for me to do that I needed to spend the next year getting my mental health back." Grier"Talk about hard things with your friends.” Grier🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈Grier, formerly a model agent, opens up about her struggles with mental health, the pressures of societal norms, and the complex decision to pursue surrogacy. She and her wife Alana navigated the challenging waters of creating a family as a queer couple, ultimately choosing a path that ensured their well-being and the love they could share with their child.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant TogetherGrowing Generations: www.growinggenerations.comKim Brown's interview episode: “Finding A Surrogate” from season 2 of the former "If These Ovaries Could Talk" podcast, now known as the Queer Family Podcast.🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Lacey, a former Mormon and lesbian mom, shares her journey of coming out and building her family with her wife, Gabby. They unexpectedly conceived their first child through at-home insemination and later decided to have more children. After struggling with infertility, they turned to fertility treatments and ended up having triplets. Amidst the joy of their growing family, their oldest child, Jonah, was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia. Lacey recounts the challenges they have faced and the strength and newfound faith they have found as a family navigating this journey together.Join us for this truly moving episode, which not only celebrates the uniqueness of LGBTQIA families but also highlights the universal aspects of parenting under extraordinary circumstances. Tune in to hear Lacey's full story, and don't forget to subscribe for more inspiring and thought-provoking content that celebrates families in all their diverse beauty.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to ⁠Pregnant Together⁠, My Donor Story, ⁠⁠⁠Our Shelves⁠⁠⁠ (code QUEERFAM) and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Lacey's upbringing in a conservative Mormon family and her subsequent journey to embracing her identity as a lesbian woman.The surprising and unanticipated conception of triplets, adding to the excitement and complexities of parenting.An intimate look into the hardships and emotional turmoil following her oldest child's cancer diagnosis.Discussion on faith and coping mechanisms in the face of adversity, challenging the idea of divine intervention.The importance of fostering a supportive and inclusive environment for children in queer families.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈"I tried really hard to fit the mold." Lacey“We had four kids in the hospital at one time." Lacey🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Lacey is a former Mormon and a lesbian mom who, alongside her wife Gabby, has faced significant life challenges. With a deep love for her family, Lacey navigates the complexities of raising four children, one of whom is courageously battling cancer. Her family's journey is a testament to their strength and resilience, with values that emphasize love, acceptance, and the beauty of being true to oneself, regardless of the circumstances.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant Together🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Corey Allen, a former Secret Service agent and current future dad on a surrogacy journey shares his experience of leading a double life while working in law enforcement and the challenges he faced as a gay man. He also discusses his surrogacy journey, including the setbacks and the decision to use two surrogates. Corey highlights the financial and legal obstacles that LGBTQ+ families often encounter and the importance of sharing stories to create awareness and promote change. Tune in for an inspiring and informative conversation.This is an essential listen for anyone in the LGBTQIA community considering family life, as well as for allies seeking understanding and connection. Stay tuned for more enlightening content from the Queer Family podcast that celebrates, uplifts, and normalizes diverse family narratives.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to ⁠Pregnant Together⁠, My Donor Story, ⁠⁠⁠Our Shelves⁠⁠⁠ (code QUEERFAM) and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 Corey Allen shares his experience of living a double life as a closeted Secret Service agent, the eventual coming out, and his personal journey to find love and start a family. Corey and his fiance Johnny's path to parenthood includes navigating the surrogacy journey with its emotional, financial, and logistical challenges.The importance of genetic connection in surrogacy decisions is discussed, as is the strategic choice to use both partners' DNA with the same egg donor.There is an emphasis on the legal complexities and discrimination against LGBTQIA+ families in the surrogacy process, including the lack of insurance coverage and the necessity for second-parent adoption.Corey's advocacy work and his book "Breaking Free" spotlight the need for broader awareness and support for queer families.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈"There were red flags that our agency didn't pick up on, or they should have." - Cory🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈Corey Allen is a former Secret Service agent with a compelling story to share about his life and experiences. He has served in law enforcement as a police officer and has provided protection for high-profile figures including the Obamas. Corey has also authored the book "Breaking Free," where he shares his saga of self-discovery as a gay Secret Service agent. Currently, he's an advocate for LGBTQIA+ family building.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: CoryAllenBooks.com https://www.coryallenbooks.com/Instagram, Facebook🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Host Jaimie sits down with Megan, Taylor, and Jessica, three married lesbian non-bio moms fighting for legal recognition of their parental rights in Louisiana. They discuss the challenges they're facing in the legal system, the archaic "presumption of paternity" civil code 185 being used against them, and the impact it has on their families. The guests share their personal experiences and the uncertainty they face as non-biological parents. They also highlight the importance of second-parent adoption and the need for better legislation to protect LGBTQ+ families.This is an essential listen for anyone in the LGBTQIA community considering family life, as well as for allies seeking understanding and connection. Stay tuned for more enlightening content from the Queer Family podcast that celebrates, uplifts, and normalizes diverse family narratives.🏳️‍🌈Thanks to ⁠Pregnant Together⁠, My Donor Story, ⁠⁠⁠Our Shelves⁠⁠⁠ (code QUEERFAM) and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 The judge in their cases used civil code 185 which does not recognize same-sex marriages and denies them the right to second-parent adoption.The cases are on hold, leaving the families in a state of limbo and uncertainty.The judge's decision is not binding in other courts, which means their rights could be challenged in the future.LGBTQ+ families in Louisiana face unique challenges due to the lack of clear and concise language in the state's laws.🏳️‍🌈Quotes:🏳️‍🌈We're never going to be able to get rid of all the bigots of the world, but we can change the system if we are a part of the system." - Taylor"Louisiana just repeatedly keeps telling me, well, you're not mother enough." Meghan“We have to sign on the father line on the birth certificate, just to add to it, add a kick in the gut.” - Jessica🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈Megan, Taylor and Jessica are residents of Louisiana and members of the LGBTQ+ community. They are advocates for LGBTQ+ rights. Meghan founded NELA Pride, an organization that aims to improve and enrich the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals in Northeast Louisiana.🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: NELA Pride - Northeast Louisiana Pride: Website🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠websiteOur Sponsors:* Check out ByHeart and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: byheart.com* Check out Outdoor Electronics: www.google.com* Check out Sunbasket: sunbasket.com/QUEERFAMAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy