DiscoverRelationship Advice382: How to Be Love(d)
382: How to Be Love(d)

382: How to Be Love(d)

Update: 2022-12-095


Love is a big idea to try to understand. What is love? How does everything around us affect how we view and experience love? What we think is love may not actually be love, but a misconstrued idea of it based on a huge number of factors. All this is to say that love can be complicated! Listen to today's show for a fun and insightful conversation about what love is and how to think about it for yourself. We all need more love in our lives and this show will help you find it. 

In this episode with Humble The Poet, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • How what we think love is may not actually be love and why this is the case

  • Why we tend to pick what's familiar rather than what's good for us

  • What love actually is and how to think about it

  • Understanding love and how you experience it in relationships

  • How to unlearn the misconstrued ideas about love we may be holding on to

  • Loving yourself more and tips to do so

  • And much more!

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382: How to Be Love(d)

382: How to Be Love(d)

Hosted by: Chase Kosterlitz, Produced by: Sarah Kosterlitz