DiscoverRelationship Advice390: Feeling Like Your Best Sex Is Behind You?
390: Feeling Like Your Best Sex Is Behind You?

390: Feeling Like Your Best Sex Is Behind You?

Update: 2023-02-016


No one wants to feel like the best sex they've ever had with their partner is behind them. However, many people will feel like the sex they had early in their relationship was way better than it is down the road. Listen to today's show to learn why that doesn't have to be the case and the tools and practices to create the best sex of your relationship right now!

In this episode with Eleni Economides, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • Why the best sex of our relationship is often at the beginning and how to switch that pattern

  • The importance of looking at ourselves first to start addressing the problem

  • Why we stop trying to seduce our partner as the relationship goes on and how this affects our sex lives

  • Deconstructing the myth that “if I have to try to have better sex, then something is not right”

  • The importance of taking the first step to start improving your relationship and how to get over that fear

  • And much more!


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390: Feeling Like Your Best Sex Is Behind You?

390: Feeling Like Your Best Sex Is Behind You?

Hosted by: Chase Kosterlitz, Produced by: Sarah Kosterlitz