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Before We Got Together I Identified As Gay

Before We Got Together I Identified As Gay

Update: 2021-12-0921
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Before they got together, he identified as straight and they identified as gay. What does it mean to make space for their queer identity while they date a straight man? And is that possible as they move into a more serious phase of their relationship?

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Erica Ferreira

If they have to give up parts that are intrinsic to their personalities, should they stay together? The conflict steams because their belief systems differ. He is definitely playing the rescuer here and she craves the security that he provides but inherently they are different people, with a shared childhood trauma.

Dec 10th
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Before We Got Together I Identified As Gay

Before We Got Together I Identified As Gay

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